The internet is a funny thing. We see the best of everyone’s lives and then sit and compare ours to the snip-its they are allowing us to see. I always thought this was ridiculous, but you know what? I’m guilty too.
I’m guilty in that I absolutely compare myself to the girls with the beautiful clothes, perfect messy buns, gorgeous homes. I do. I wonder how they look so great all the time and how their lives are so shiny and beautiful and mine is just such a mess.
But I’m also guilty in the sense that I also heavily edit my life. Now I don’t do this because I want people to think I live a perfect fairy tale or that I’m better off than anyone else. Quite the opposite, I don’t want people to see what is really going on and think “Oh wow. Her life is F’ed UP”.
But here I am. I’m about to put all that out there. I’ve put bits and pieces out there before, but if I want to truly expect people to know and trust me, than I need to show them all of me.
And getting to know someone who is never present online, well, that’s nearly impossible.
So here’s my thought. I’m letting my hair down, you guys. I want to be ME. Not some polished, happy version of myself. Listen, sometimes I get cranky. Sometimes, I curse. Ok, well a lot of the time I curse. Sometimes, I don’t like things. But that’s part of being a real person. And I feel like those are all the things that I’m so afraid to convey on social media.
So what is the point of this post? Well, firstly, it’s another in a growing list of “I’m sorry I’ve been absent” posts. When I tell you my life has been in shambles over the last year and a half, that is no understatement.
We have had several health scares with family members, some more permanent than others. From serious motor vehicle accidents, to surgery, to a completely debilitating disease, this year has not been kind to our extended family members.
On top of all that, the home that we are currently living in has been foreclosed on. We have been house hunting for quite some time, as I’ve mentioned briefly before, but due to our lacking budget, we have yet to find a house that will work for us. So right now, I’m packing to move into a house that I don’t own yet and we are desperately searching for something while the clock ticks on.
I cry most days. I hide it from most, but this year is taking a toll on me mentally. And I know I’ve talked before about how easy it is to shut down when you are stressed. I do it ALL THE TIME. But when you shut down and do nothing, sometimes you lose sight of some of the things that make you happy. For me, my business is one of those things. I love building my business, interacting with people, making relationships. HELPING PEOPLE. I love it and it brings me joy. But I forgot.
SO here I am. I am back for the hundredth time. Be patient with me. Know that through the madness, I’m trying like hell to get back to happy and back to my business. I want to shed some layers and become just a little more real, a little more transparent. Nevertheless, I plan to persist.